Testimonials
“Your encouragement has worked wonders in our understanding of each other.”
“I like it when they come here; they have different ideas for what we could do.”
“I stopped writing after my stroke, but I wanted to do the scrapbooks so I made myself practice at home and now I am writing again. Last weekend I decided if I could learn to write again I could learn to knit again. So I knitted all last weekend, listening to Classic FM in the background. It was the best weekend in ages.”
“Last winter I felt so low I thought about moving into a nursing home. Now I feel there are people at the day centre I could talk to if that happened again.”
These quotes are from older people who took part in a 2007 project I ran with Age UK Oxfordshire in two Oxfordshire social services' day centres (you can download that report for free, here: Roots and Circles: ideas for personalising day care). The letter and email in the small photo above are from older people who took part in two other projects for different organisations, in Dorset, and Gateshead, in 2008, and 2012.
Sometimes you get totally unsolicited feedback (of the nice variety!). This email, from the summer of 2019, was from a project being funded as part of the Celebrating Age arts programme in England (2017-2021), about some materials I'd written, as part of the national evaluation team, for use by projects collecting stories as part of the Most Significant Change - a story collecting and reflecting method we're using for the qualitative side of things:
"I found the story collection template and accompanying notes which came earlier this year really helpful. They gave me a structure that seemed to clear a bit of a fog and when participants digressed I felt like I had something concrete that I could use to bring them back and could use to dig deeper in their stories to find what was most significant. I got to really enjoy the process."
More testimonials include:
"You have saved me hours and hours of research, trawling on the internet but not understanding what I need
to look for." (individual client, 2015)
"The absolute wealth of information contained in the Webinar was incredible. Thank you so much. As co-lead for [our] Family Network's carers' initiative it will prove so valuable in conversations we have with carers in the workplace. I also feel like Lorna is building a virtual relationship with our carers. I really liked the way she mentioned that this was part of our series for Carers, which creates continuity and belonging for all." -
"Excellent, Excellent, Excellent. A concise and comprehensive presentation - caring is a social minefield and there are often loads of benefits and help which isn't actually advertised generally, whether through the GP or Social Services, and therefore the benefits remain untapped, i.e. there is a budget but they don't like to advertise that they have a budget for a specific thing, so the wealth of informational sources you have provided is Excellent... sorry to use the word so much but it is Excellent!!" - "I always find Lorna such a pleasure to listen to, therapeutic even! These days it's easy for people to just read from a script without any feeling or compassion, but she does not come across like that at all. She is very engaging and such a great speaker. I would rather listen to her, someone I don't know, than my GP or nurse, who I feel are judging me before we even start a conversation!" (Webinar, corporate client, February 2020).
"Lots of helpful information. Non-judgemental. Really felt like the speaker totally understood what it's like to be a carer. I honestly feel like I am completely alone and people look at me blankly when I turn down yet another social invitation as I have to take one or other of my parents to a medical appointment or attend an LPA related meeting but this made me feel like I am normal." (Webinar, corporate client, December 2019)
"Very very well explained" - "The depth of knowledge of the presenter was amazing" - "Lorna was very articulate and thorough in ALL aspects of the disease" - "Excellent topic: presenter was amazing and kept me engaged throughout" - "Good clear information and reassurance that you are doing the right thing by your family member" - "Summarising info from so many places ... providing a menu and a navigation among the enormous amount of info out there" (Webinar on dementia, July 2019)
"Excellent presentation and coverage of the necessaries" - "A great overview of the options available and where to start" - "Brilliant session" (Webinar on care and support, March 2019)
"I found the session on Thursday very helpful. The fact that Lorna is experienced in caring both professionally and personally means that she has a very real understanding of the challenges. So valuable when talking with people who are in the depths of the caring role." (Participant in facilitated discussion, staff group for carers, November 2018)
"All of it [was the 'most useful part'], to be honest ... extremely useful to my situation. My parents now both need care, and are moving to be close to where I live. I also have a daughter with Down Syndrome. (And a husband with a disability.) The information shared was excellent and I found I could apply to each of the scenarios that I have. It will also help me to think ahead for my own family." (Webinar, June 2018)
"Hearing that we were doing things already - when you are struggling and you think you are not doing enough it was good to hear that when items were mentioned some of them we already had in hand." (Webinar on planning ahead for care, June 2018)
"I found the webinar very useful and informative - especially on providing support to relatives overseas." (Webinar, June 2018)
"The most useful part was the presenter - her expertise in this topic was of great benefit to me. Please pass on my sincere thanks." Very, very, very useful. First time I am listening about care homes and it is incredibly useful to manage my own caring plan. The pace of the speaker was fantastic. Not too fast, not slow either."(Webinar on care homes, June 2018)
"Thank you very much for your time today, it has been hugely helpful. If only they provided this sort of help for the family at the hospitals when getting the diagnosis!" (Law firm employee and family carer, on their 30 minute private 1:2:1 Clinic session held at their workplace, through Employees Matter, June 2017)
"All of it [was 'the most helpful part'] - seemed to cover pretty much every eventuality of becoming a carer. Gave confidence that help is available and where to get it. Clear, detailed, brilliantly presented, with easy to read slides." "Great synopsis of areas and provision of really useful websites." (Webinar, June 2015)
"The most useful Care webinar I have ever attended. It avoided mindfulness and stuck to where you can get help." (Webinar, June 2017)
"I wanted to take the opportunity to thank you once again for your time on Wednesday when you spoke to us about the role of a carer and provided us with a raft of extremely useful information. Everyone who attended the session has commented on how invaluable your advice was and how keen they are to share the information with other members of their family and friends. You were a refreshing change from the usual lunchtime sessions and presented the information in an easily digestible fashion." (Partner, international law firm, about a Coping with Caring lunchtime seminar arranged through Employees Matter, 2015)
“Lorna’s breadth of knowledge of the Care Act was central to the success of the training. She was able to answer questions from attendees with clear insight and understanding of the Act. She is also an excellent communicator.” (local authority commissioner, Care Act training session, 2015)
“You have a knack for explaining difficult things very simply, and not many people can do that.” (Social worker attending Care Act training, 2015)
“Many thanks again for your time and wonderfully helpful, well-informed and supportive input in facilitating the Staff Carers’ Group discussion yesterday. I think it’s really helpful for colleagues – including me - to have the opportunity to come together, and take a bit of ‘time out’ from our busy working days to talk about more personal issues, relationships and caring responsibilities – with all the human complexity and sometimes unsatisfactory imperfection that this can often involve. Your role as a very sensitive, caring and compassionate facilitator is critical to enabling us to even have these kinds of conversations, so I just wanted to acknowledge how valuable your input is. The way in which you also inject a bit of much-needed humour, from time to time, to lighten the tone a little, is also very helpful!” (Diversity & Inclusion Manager, Age UK, 2014)
"What an excellent seminar. So much information presented in such a clear way, with no wasted time and no waffle. It was one of the best sessions I've dialled into." (Webinar, 2013)
"Please thank Lorna for an excellent explanation of an area that is involving increasingly complex issues and multi-layered topics." (Webinar on care law, 2013)
Here are two testimonials from organisations I helped in their early formation:
"Lorna was extremely useful to Bonnie Day by providing excellent background knowledge of the
care industry based on her wide experience. We also valued listening to her client centred approach
and found her to be a warm and reflective practitioner. We really appreciated every minute of the meeting."
Marilyn & Gill, Owners and Facilitators, Bonnie Day
"Lorna was like a mentor to me when I was thinking of setting up my own social enterprise. When I
needed advice on elder care and the issues in the sector, Lorna was incredibly knowledgeable and
supportive, always providing brilliant information and great advice. I really appreciated her guidance
and insight which was invaluable at the beginning of my journey."
Rachel Mortimer, Founder, EngAge & Create
And two of my all-time favourites:
"I would recommend Lorna 100%. She is very expert on older people and person centred services, an excellent facilitator and a good researcher and writer. Plus a really nice person to work with." (Policy advisor, national charity, 2016)
"You're a ‘bluebird-of-happiness’ type of person, as opposed to the ‘grey-chicken-of-depression’ type that I try and avoid." (Researcher, national charity, 2014)
This page isn't a gimmick: a lot of my work involves finding out about and discussing, with older people and family carers, their views and experiences - which are then sometimes drawn together (often alongside contributions from paid staff and others) and represented in reports, presentations, and other materials; so it makes sense that anyone looking at this website should be able to see that people are comfortable working with me. After all, these aren't people who already know me - we might come together just for an hour or two or perhaps a few days, in villages, towns and cities anywhere in the UK.
“I like it when they come here; they have different ideas for what we could do.”
“I stopped writing after my stroke, but I wanted to do the scrapbooks so I made myself practice at home and now I am writing again. Last weekend I decided if I could learn to write again I could learn to knit again. So I knitted all last weekend, listening to Classic FM in the background. It was the best weekend in ages.”
“Last winter I felt so low I thought about moving into a nursing home. Now I feel there are people at the day centre I could talk to if that happened again.”
These quotes are from older people who took part in a 2007 project I ran with Age UK Oxfordshire in two Oxfordshire social services' day centres (you can download that report for free, here: Roots and Circles: ideas for personalising day care). The letter and email in the small photo above are from older people who took part in two other projects for different organisations, in Dorset, and Gateshead, in 2008, and 2012.
Sometimes you get totally unsolicited feedback (of the nice variety!). This email, from the summer of 2019, was from a project being funded as part of the Celebrating Age arts programme in England (2017-2021), about some materials I'd written, as part of the national evaluation team, for use by projects collecting stories as part of the Most Significant Change - a story collecting and reflecting method we're using for the qualitative side of things:
"I found the story collection template and accompanying notes which came earlier this year really helpful. They gave me a structure that seemed to clear a bit of a fog and when participants digressed I felt like I had something concrete that I could use to bring them back and could use to dig deeper in their stories to find what was most significant. I got to really enjoy the process."
More testimonials include:
"You have saved me hours and hours of research, trawling on the internet but not understanding what I need
to look for." (individual client, 2015)
"The absolute wealth of information contained in the Webinar was incredible. Thank you so much. As co-lead for [our] Family Network's carers' initiative it will prove so valuable in conversations we have with carers in the workplace. I also feel like Lorna is building a virtual relationship with our carers. I really liked the way she mentioned that this was part of our series for Carers, which creates continuity and belonging for all." -
"Excellent, Excellent, Excellent. A concise and comprehensive presentation - caring is a social minefield and there are often loads of benefits and help which isn't actually advertised generally, whether through the GP or Social Services, and therefore the benefits remain untapped, i.e. there is a budget but they don't like to advertise that they have a budget for a specific thing, so the wealth of informational sources you have provided is Excellent... sorry to use the word so much but it is Excellent!!" - "I always find Lorna such a pleasure to listen to, therapeutic even! These days it's easy for people to just read from a script without any feeling or compassion, but she does not come across like that at all. She is very engaging and such a great speaker. I would rather listen to her, someone I don't know, than my GP or nurse, who I feel are judging me before we even start a conversation!" (Webinar, corporate client, February 2020).
"Lots of helpful information. Non-judgemental. Really felt like the speaker totally understood what it's like to be a carer. I honestly feel like I am completely alone and people look at me blankly when I turn down yet another social invitation as I have to take one or other of my parents to a medical appointment or attend an LPA related meeting but this made me feel like I am normal." (Webinar, corporate client, December 2019)
"Very very well explained" - "The depth of knowledge of the presenter was amazing" - "Lorna was very articulate and thorough in ALL aspects of the disease" - "Excellent topic: presenter was amazing and kept me engaged throughout" - "Good clear information and reassurance that you are doing the right thing by your family member" - "Summarising info from so many places ... providing a menu and a navigation among the enormous amount of info out there" (Webinar on dementia, July 2019)
"Excellent presentation and coverage of the necessaries" - "A great overview of the options available and where to start" - "Brilliant session" (Webinar on care and support, March 2019)
"I found the session on Thursday very helpful. The fact that Lorna is experienced in caring both professionally and personally means that she has a very real understanding of the challenges. So valuable when talking with people who are in the depths of the caring role." (Participant in facilitated discussion, staff group for carers, November 2018)
"All of it [was the 'most useful part'], to be honest ... extremely useful to my situation. My parents now both need care, and are moving to be close to where I live. I also have a daughter with Down Syndrome. (And a husband with a disability.) The information shared was excellent and I found I could apply to each of the scenarios that I have. It will also help me to think ahead for my own family." (Webinar, June 2018)
"Hearing that we were doing things already - when you are struggling and you think you are not doing enough it was good to hear that when items were mentioned some of them we already had in hand." (Webinar on planning ahead for care, June 2018)
"I found the webinar very useful and informative - especially on providing support to relatives overseas." (Webinar, June 2018)
"The most useful part was the presenter - her expertise in this topic was of great benefit to me. Please pass on my sincere thanks." Very, very, very useful. First time I am listening about care homes and it is incredibly useful to manage my own caring plan. The pace of the speaker was fantastic. Not too fast, not slow either."(Webinar on care homes, June 2018)
"Thank you very much for your time today, it has been hugely helpful. If only they provided this sort of help for the family at the hospitals when getting the diagnosis!" (Law firm employee and family carer, on their 30 minute private 1:2:1 Clinic session held at their workplace, through Employees Matter, June 2017)
"All of it [was 'the most helpful part'] - seemed to cover pretty much every eventuality of becoming a carer. Gave confidence that help is available and where to get it. Clear, detailed, brilliantly presented, with easy to read slides." "Great synopsis of areas and provision of really useful websites." (Webinar, June 2015)
"The most useful Care webinar I have ever attended. It avoided mindfulness and stuck to where you can get help." (Webinar, June 2017)
"I wanted to take the opportunity to thank you once again for your time on Wednesday when you spoke to us about the role of a carer and provided us with a raft of extremely useful information. Everyone who attended the session has commented on how invaluable your advice was and how keen they are to share the information with other members of their family and friends. You were a refreshing change from the usual lunchtime sessions and presented the information in an easily digestible fashion." (Partner, international law firm, about a Coping with Caring lunchtime seminar arranged through Employees Matter, 2015)
“Lorna’s breadth of knowledge of the Care Act was central to the success of the training. She was able to answer questions from attendees with clear insight and understanding of the Act. She is also an excellent communicator.” (local authority commissioner, Care Act training session, 2015)
“You have a knack for explaining difficult things very simply, and not many people can do that.” (Social worker attending Care Act training, 2015)
“Many thanks again for your time and wonderfully helpful, well-informed and supportive input in facilitating the Staff Carers’ Group discussion yesterday. I think it’s really helpful for colleagues – including me - to have the opportunity to come together, and take a bit of ‘time out’ from our busy working days to talk about more personal issues, relationships and caring responsibilities – with all the human complexity and sometimes unsatisfactory imperfection that this can often involve. Your role as a very sensitive, caring and compassionate facilitator is critical to enabling us to even have these kinds of conversations, so I just wanted to acknowledge how valuable your input is. The way in which you also inject a bit of much-needed humour, from time to time, to lighten the tone a little, is also very helpful!” (Diversity & Inclusion Manager, Age UK, 2014)
"What an excellent seminar. So much information presented in such a clear way, with no wasted time and no waffle. It was one of the best sessions I've dialled into." (Webinar, 2013)
"Please thank Lorna for an excellent explanation of an area that is involving increasingly complex issues and multi-layered topics." (Webinar on care law, 2013)
Here are two testimonials from organisations I helped in their early formation:
"Lorna was extremely useful to Bonnie Day by providing excellent background knowledge of the
care industry based on her wide experience. We also valued listening to her client centred approach
and found her to be a warm and reflective practitioner. We really appreciated every minute of the meeting."
Marilyn & Gill, Owners and Facilitators, Bonnie Day
"Lorna was like a mentor to me when I was thinking of setting up my own social enterprise. When I
needed advice on elder care and the issues in the sector, Lorna was incredibly knowledgeable and
supportive, always providing brilliant information and great advice. I really appreciated her guidance
and insight which was invaluable at the beginning of my journey."
Rachel Mortimer, Founder, EngAge & Create
And two of my all-time favourites:
"I would recommend Lorna 100%. She is very expert on older people and person centred services, an excellent facilitator and a good researcher and writer. Plus a really nice person to work with." (Policy advisor, national charity, 2016)
"You're a ‘bluebird-of-happiness’ type of person, as opposed to the ‘grey-chicken-of-depression’ type that I try and avoid." (Researcher, national charity, 2014)
This page isn't a gimmick: a lot of my work involves finding out about and discussing, with older people and family carers, their views and experiences - which are then sometimes drawn together (often alongside contributions from paid staff and others) and represented in reports, presentations, and other materials; so it makes sense that anyone looking at this website should be able to see that people are comfortable working with me. After all, these aren't people who already know me - we might come together just for an hour or two or perhaps a few days, in villages, towns and cities anywhere in the UK.
